This isn't a feminist criticism of media. This is a rant. I'm angry. I'm pissed off at being ignored by men when I'm out with my husband.
Now I know what you're thinking but that is not what I mean. You're thinking, "She wants guys to find her attractive even though she's married." No, that's not it at all.
I'm tired of being treated like I just don't exist because I'm married - and most likely unfuckable. I'm sick of watching my husband meet new people as I sit there and listen to them ask each other questions about their hobbies and interests. And I can't believe how many times it's happened or even how nice these guys usually are. Like they don't even realize they've written me off as a human being. Why? Is it because they won't have a chance to fuck me? What is the point of talking to a woman you can't fuck, right?
I want to scream. I want to ask why. Why don't you even ask my name? Why do you assume my husband is the one with a job??? Why don't people notice, why doesn't my husband notice when I'm being treated with disrespect?
Now I know what you're thinking but that is not what I mean. You're thinking, "She wants guys to find her attractive even though she's married." No, that's not it at all.
I'm tired of being treated like I just don't exist because I'm married - and most likely unfuckable. I'm sick of watching my husband meet new people as I sit there and listen to them ask each other questions about their hobbies and interests. And I can't believe how many times it's happened or even how nice these guys usually are. Like they don't even realize they've written me off as a human being. Why? Is it because they won't have a chance to fuck me? What is the point of talking to a woman you can't fuck, right?
I want to scream. I want to ask why. Why don't you even ask my name? Why do you assume my husband is the one with a job??? Why don't people notice, why doesn't my husband notice when I'm being treated with disrespect?
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